Buy My Affection
About us

We want partners!

Buy My Affection is a gift delivery service offered to websites on a revenue-sharing basis.

How our service works

Individuals don't sign up with us directly. We partner with a site and offer the service to their entire membership.

Send a gift! 
(sample)

Most services offer winks, messages, and chatting. When you integrate your dating site with us, you a new link alongside these, where users can buy a gift.

When someone clicks on that link, they land on a page we manage, which explains the service and provides co-branding between our two services.

The sender would select their preferred gift and proceed to checkout where we collect payment information. The member is returned to the dating site.

We defer collecting a delivery address until a purchase is made. Our software pulls email and (if available) postal information over a secure channel from the dating site, assesses its quality, and if it's insufficient initiates contact with the gift recipient.

Integration process

Integration is simple, and involves answering two questions: what's the email address for this screen name? And what's the postal address information on hand for this screen name? That's it. Most services we integrate with take about a day of programmer time.

Our API is published, and we offer a testing tool.

While the service is operating, we provide straightforward reports with detailed commission calculations.

Market position

Our offer isn't really meant for people who don't know each other, though of course we'd take the sale. It's for that bridge between 1st date and 3rd date that people have such a hard time crossing. Our commitment (and technology) keeps the personal information private so that people are free to relate the way they want to.

Our responsibilities

Collecting payment, managing customer service, fulfilling the order, optimizing our site to maximize conversions, managing relations with suppliers, adding new suppliers, collecting payment, and (of course) mailing commission cheques to our dating site partners.

Get in touch if you have any questions.